Breaking the Mold: How to Create Your Own Definition of Motherhood
As mothers, we often feel pressure to conform to societal norms and expectations of what motherhood should look like. We are bombarded with images of perfect moms, with pristine homes and well-behaved children, and it can be easy to fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others and feeling like we don't measure up. But the truth is, motherhood is not one-size-fits-all. Each of our experiences is unique, and it's important for us to break the mold and create our own definition of what motherhood means to us.
One mother who has done just that is Nicole, a stay-at-home mom who always dreamed of having a career. For years, she felt guilty for not being content with her role as a mother and wife. But after some self-reflection, she realized that her desire to work was not a sign of her being ungrateful for her family, but rather a part of who she was. So, she decided to pursue her passion for writing and started a blog while still taking care of her children.
Nicole's story is a reminder that as mothers, it's important for us to listen to our own needs and desires and not feel guilty for wanting more out of life. It's possible to be a great mom and still have other aspirations.
So, how can you start breaking the mold and creating your own definition of motherhood?
Here are some action steps:
Reflect on your values and what's important to you. What are your non-negotiables when it comes to motherhood? What are your priorities?
Explore your passions and interests. What are you passionate about? What makes you feel fulfilled?
Take small steps towards achieving your goals. You don't have to have everything figured out right away. Start with small, achievable steps and build from there.
Surround yourself with supportive people. It's important to have a tribe of people who will support and encourage you on your journey.
Remember that it's okay to change your mind. Your definition of motherhood may evolve over time and that's okay.
By breaking the mold and creating your own definition of motherhood, you'll be able to create a more fulfilling life for yourself and your family. And, don't forget to download the More Than Motherhood starter kit for more tips and resources on how to create a more fulfilling life as a mother.